How to start dating a colleague
"We took things slowly because we were both very aware that we worked in the same office," she remembers.But the caution was worth it: Five years after that first date, he proposed.
"Nowadays work and life are very integrated." In that light, these stats aren't surprising: 37 percent of people have dated a coworker, according to a 2015 survey by Career Builder, and 30 percent of those relationships ended in marriage (proving that an office romance is not always a disaster).
Nick,* 29, was surprised but pleased to be hired by his girlfriend's digital-media company, where several other couples worked together.
"The policy seemed to be: If you're dating and still doing your job, we don't care," he says.
And if a colleague asks you out and won't take no for an answer, that may be harassment, and you should consider talking to HR. If you make out with someone at the holiday party, bite the bullet and ask about the person's intentions afterward.
"I did not ask, and I spent the next six months wondering if every work email he sent was a subtle invitation to get at it again," says Mia, 30, a management consultant in New York.